I have gone into 3.4 but not letting me delete it.
What error message do you get? Since the dataset has your userid as 1st qualifier, I will hazard a guess that it is deleted but not uncataloged. To uncatalog a dataset in ISPF 3.4 you use the U line command. Before you do that please try the I line command, which will tell you if the dataset is there or not. If it exist then do not attempt uncatalog (obviously).
I am curious, how can you run a mainframe site without any mainframe folks around ?
how would i set up the JCL and save it so it runs each time i submit a job
I'm not quite sure what you mean. Jobs are normally stored in a partitioned dataset member. Why would you include this particular JCL in every job you submit? JCL can be stored as a procedure in a system proclib or a private proclib, but to do that you will need some help. The 'z/OS MVS JCL Reference' manual contains the neccessary information, but it is not an easy read.